Showing posts with label Words. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Words. Show all posts

Friday, July 19, 2013

65 Soul Stirring Quotes That Will Change Your Life

There's something about the written word that has a way of speaking straight to your heart. When you read something that has you thinking for days, when you hear a saying that gives you that yes! feeling right in your gut, or seeing those words, the ones that you've been yearning for, the ones you needed to hear right in that moment, even though you didn't know it until they were right there, before your eyes.
 
For as long as I can remember, I've recklessly scribbled down motivational quotes on paper, saved thousands in my bookmarks, posted them in plain view as reminders, and always refer back to them whenever I need a little pick-me-up. Words come with a powerful punch, they carry vibration and intention. They have a way of resonating, connecting, understanding, soothing, comforting, uplifting, encouraging, and empowering.
 
I must admit, for me, after seeing the same quotes time and time again, they tend to lose their value so over the past few weeks I've been saving some goodies that have been flying under the radar. These rare quotes are all about truth, love, happiness, visioning, creating, and overcoming challenges. I hope some of these will speak straight to your soul and give you that spark you might need today. I encourage you to spread this list around online, share it with your loved ones, and add to it in the comments!
 
I understand that you may not have the time to get through this entire list right now so please! bookmark this post and come back to it whenever you need to hear some words of love and encouragement.
 
Dream big, be you, and rock your best life xx 
 

ON LIFE

“The happiness of life is made up of minute fractions – the little soon forgotten charities of a kiss or a smile, a kind look, a heartfelt compliment, and the countless infinitesimals of a pleasurable and genial feeling." | Samuel Taylor Coleridge

"Bless everything. (And I mean everything.) Notice what things, people, experiences, events you are having trouble blessing. These are the things you hold as separate from the wholeness, from the divine. When all things – including these – are included in blessing, you will live in a blessed, sacred world." | Amy Oscar

"All the masterpieces of art contain both light and shadow. A happy life is not one filled with only sunshine, but one which uses both light and shadow to produce beauty." | Billy Graham

"If consensus is overrated, I think balance is, too. I have no interest in living a balanced life. I want a life of adventure." | Chris Guillebeau

“Dare to live the life you have dreamed for yourself. Go forward and make your dreams come true.” | Ralph Waldo Emerson

“Patience child, patience. Remember, life is a journey. If you got everything you wanted all at once there’d be no point to living. Enjoy the ride, and in the end you’ll see these “setbacks” as giant leaps forward, only you couldn’t see the bigger picture in the moment. Remain calm, all is within reach; all you have to do is show up every day, stay true to your path and you’ll surely find the treasure that you seek.” | Jackson Kiddard

"There are only four questions of value in life. What is sacred? Of what is the spirit made? What is worth living for? And what is worth dying for? The answer to each is the same. Only love." | San Juan DeMarco


ON HAPPINESS + LOVE

"I urge you to please notice when you are happy, and exclaim or murmur or think at some point 'if this isn't nice, I don't know what is.'" | Kurt Vonnegut

"Don't move the way fear makes you move. Move the way love makes you move. Move the way joy makes you move." | Osho

"We need to make a fundamental choice. A choice on which all of our other choices and behaviors are built. The choice to live at our highest potential. To choose to be a creator not a victim. To choose health and vitality. To choose love." | Mark Buckingham

"I will waste not even a precious second today in anger or hate or jealousy or selfishness. I know that the seeds I sow I will harvest, because every action, good or bad, is always followed by an equal reaction. I will plant only good seeds this day." | Og Mandino

"There's nothing more beautiful than just allowing yourself to really be happy and be comfortable in your own skin." | Jason Collins

“We search for happiness everywhere, but we are like Tolstoy's fabled beggar who spent his life sitting on a pot of gold, under him the whole time. Your treasure--your perfection--is within you already. But to claim it, you must leave the buy commotion of the mind and abandon the desires of the ego and enter into the silence of the heart.” | Elizabeth Gilbert

"If you have good thoughts they will shine out of your face like sunbeams and you will always look lovely." | Ronald Dahl

"Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage." | Lao Tzu

“It's been my experience that you can nearly always enjoy things if you make up your mind firmly that you will.” | L.M. Montgomery

"Simply seek happiness and you are not likely to find it. Seek to create and love without regard to your happiness and you are likely to be happy much of the time." | Dr M Scott Peck

"When we love, we always strive to become better than we are. When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too." | Coelho

"Now and then, it's good to pause in our pursuit of happiness and just be happy." | Guillaume Apollinaire


ON DREAMING + VISIONING

“Your vision will only become clear when you can look into your own heart. Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakens.” | Leo Carl Jung

“Why dream? Life is a difficult assignment. We are fragile creatures, expected to function at high rates of speed, and asked to accomplish great and small things each day. These daily activities take enormous amounts of energy. Most things are out of our control. We are surrounded by danger, frustration, grief, and insanity as well as love, hope, ecstasy, and wonder. Being fully human is an exercise in humility, suffering, grace, and great humor. Things and people all around us die, get broken, or are lost. There is no safety or guarantees. The way to accomplish the assignment of truly living is to engage fully, richly, and deeply in the living of your dreams. We are made to dream and to live those dreams.” | SARK

"We are desire. It is the essence of the human Soul, the secret of our existence. Absolutely nothing of human greatness is ever accomplished without it. Not a symphony has been written, a mountain climbed, an injustice fought, or a love sustained apart from desire. Desire fuels our search for the life we prize." | John Elderidge

"Keep your dreams alive. Understand to achieve anything requires faith and belief in yourself, vision, hard work, determination, and dedication. Remember all things are possible for those who believe." | Gail Devers

"I am compelled by some deep hunger of the soul, driven by a desire that will not leave me alone, to live life to the fullest. And I know this does not mean working endlessly, accomplishing the most, or consuming the greatest amount and variety of things and experiences. It means tasting each mouthful, feeling each breath, listening to each song, being awake and aware of each moment as it unfolds." | Oriah Mountain Dreamer

"We are made of stardust. Every atom of every element in your body except for hydrogen has been manufactured inside stars, scattered across the universe in great stellar explosions and recycled to become part of you." | John Gribbin 

“I believe in everything until it's disproved. So I believe in fairies, the myths, dragons. It all exists, even if it's in your mind. Who's to say that dreams and nightmares aren't as real as the here and now?” | John Lennon

"A desire is anything but frivolous. It is the interface between you and that which is greater than you. No desire is meaningless or inconsequential. If it pulls you, even a little bit, it will take everyone higher. Desire is where the Divine lives, inside the inspiration of your desire. Every desire is of profound importance with huge consequences, and deserves your attention." | Mama Gena

"What you seek is seeking you." | Rumi


ON CHANGE + GROWTH

“Everyone has this giant, luminous being that is their true self… Everyone is a sleeping giant, so to speak, waiting to hear the call, waiting to surrender to it, waiting to act on it. We’ve gotten caught up in thinking we are what we look like, the physical, the exterior. We think we’re the lamp shade. We’ve forgotten that we are the light — the electricity and the luminosity that lights up every man, woman, and child. The light is who we truly are.” | Michael Bernard Beckwith

"All great changes are preceded by chaos." | Deepak Chopra

“Don’t ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive, and go do it. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.” | Howard Thurman

"You grow most in your areas of greatest strength. You will improve the most, be the most creative, be the most inquisitive, and bounce back the fastest in those areas where you have already shown some natural advantage over everyone else— your strengths. This doesn’t mean you should ignore your weaknesses. It just means you’ll grow most where you’re already strong." | Marcus Buckingham

"We know intuitively that most of the time, we should not run, we should stay and look for a different way forward... but we are wiser, more present, more mature, and more understanding when we realize we can never flee from the need to run away." | David Whyte

“The most creative act you will ever undertake is the act of creating yourself.” | Deepak Chopra

"I am on a journey... With my work, my explorations, and a few sad stories. I travel with a suitcase full of outrageous blessings. I am on a quest for truth, beauty, and quiet joy. I am an artist, a writer, an explorer." | Unknown

"Freedom is an inner awareness, a knowing that nothing can touch the truth of who you are; it is the "I am" that is within you and everyone." | Ed and Deb Shapiro

“You must find the place inside yourself where nothing is impossible.” | Deepak Chopra

"The reason you are here is to express the highest form of who you are." | Cheryl Richardson

Forgiveness is not an emotion. It is a decision made by your whole self after your true emotional work has been done. - Karla McLaren

“Be impeccable with your word. Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.” | Don Miguel Ruiz

"Forgiveness is the catalyst for your greatest change." | Gabrielle Bernstein

"In the space between yes and no, there's a lifetime. It's the different between the path you walk and the one you leave behind; it's the gap between who you thought you could be and who you really are." | Jodi Picoult 

"Take a journey into the things which you are carrying, the known—not into the unknown—into what you already know: your pleasures, your delights, your despairs, your sorrows. Take a journey into that, that is all you have." | J. Krishnamurti

 
ON WRITING + CREATION

“Passion is a feeling that tells you: this is the right thing to do. Nothing can stand in my way. It doesn't matter what anyone else says. This feeling is so good that it cannot be ignored. I'm going to follow my bliss and act upon this glorious sensation of joy." | Wayne W. Dyer

“One of the things I know about writing is this: spend it all, shoot it, play it, lose it, all, right away, every time. Do not hoard what seems good for a later place in the book or for another book; give it, give it all, give it now. Something more will arise for later, something better.” | Annie Dillard

"Keep on going and the chances are you will stumble on something, perhaps when you are least expecting it. I have never heard of anyone stumbling on something sitting down." | Charles F. Kettering

"You make a choice or set a goal and let people know about it. Then just getting started leads to the discovery of internal resources that help us to go further than we ever thought we could." | Christopher Reeve

“Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, do not sit home and think about it. Go out and get busy.” | Dale Carnegie

"I am my best work— a series of road maps, reports, recipes, doodles, and prayers from the front lines." | Audre Lorde, poet

"You have your way, I have my way. As for the right way, the correct way, and the only way, it does not exist." | Friedrich Nietzsche

“Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.” | Ralph Waldo Emerson

"When I say be creative, I don’t mean you should all go and become great painters and great poets. I simply mean let your life be a painting, let your life be a poem." | Osho


ON OVERCOMING LIMITING BELIEFS

"Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it." | Rumi

"The limiting factor on your success is not the size of the obstacles, but the size of your dream." | Orrin Woodward

“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.” - Mark Twain

“It’s your life — but only if you make it so. The standards by which you live must be your own standards, your own values, your own convictions in regard to what is right and wrong, what is true and false, what is important and what is trivial. When you adopt the standards and the values of someone else or a community or a pressure group, you surrender your own integrity. You become, to the extent of your surrender, less of a human being.” | Eleanor Roosevelt

“We often hesitate to follow our intuition out of fear. Most usually, we are afraid of the changes in our own life that our actions will bring. Intuitive guidance, however, is all about change. It is energetic data ripe with the potential to influence the rest of the world. To fear change but to crave intuitive clarity is like fearing the cold, dark night while pouring water on the fire that lights your cave. An insight the size of a mustard seed is powerful enough to bring down a mountain-sized illusion that may be holding our lives together. Truth strikes without mercy. We fear our intuitions because we fear the transformational power within our revelations.” | Caroline Myss

“Love is what we are born with. Fear is what we learn. The spiritual journey is the unlearning of fear and prejudices and the acceptance of love back in our hearts. Love is the essential reality and our purpose on earth. To be consciously aware of it, to experience love in ourselves and others, is the meaning of life. Meaning does not lie in things. Meaning lies in us.” | Marianne Williamson

"There is only one thing that makes a dream impossible to achieve: the fear of failure." | Paulo Coelho

“Some changes look negative on the surface but you will soon realize that space is being created in your life for something new to emerge.” | Eckhart Tolle

"Always go with the choice that scares you the most, because that’s the one that is going to require the most from you" | Caroline Myss

"There is no such thing as failure. There is only success, manifesting in its many aspects. Always remember, you never fail to succeed." | Neale Donald Walsch

“Give up defining yourself - to yourself or to others. You won't die. You will come to life. And don't be concerned with how others define you. When they define you, they are limiting themselves, so it's their problem. Whenever you interact with people, don't be there primarily as a function or a role, but as the field of conscious Presence. You can only lose something that you have, but you cannot lose something that you are.” | Eckhart Tolle

"I found out that there weren’t too many limitations, if I did it my way." | Johnny Cash

"Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery, none but ourselves can free our minds." | Bob Marley

 
Images: 1&6 Anne He // 2&3 Wild & Free Jewelry // 4 gbrosseau // 5 .Isobel

Thursday, June 20, 2013

33 Ways To Stay Creative


Just popping in quickly to say hello! About 35395235 tasks have creeped in on this week, all wanting my attention so I've been a busy bee trying to stay on top of it all. My days are being spent catching up on work, and our nights are spent packing as we get set to move in less than two weeks now! To say that I'm excited is a weeeeee bit of an understatement. The wheels are a turnin' in this brain of mine as I sort through paint and fabric swatches, order new furniture, and plan each room in our new place.

I found this list of 33 ways to stay creative what seems like eons ago and now have it posted proudly so I can remind myself daily to make space for the things that make me feel creative. All points come packing a big punch, but I'd say 4, 6, 18, 24, 29, 30, and 33 resonate with me most.

So - to all you creatives out there (and by the way - we're all creatives), keep on keeping on and live the dream xx

A little Q&A: What's going on in your world lately? Any new and exciting projects you're taking on? I'd love to hear all about it so don't be afraid to drop me a line in the comments!

P.S. Sebastian sent me this link yesterday, and I immediately saved it to my favourites folder, changing the title boldly to "LOVE THIS LOVE THIS LOVE THIS". Here's to not being average!

Friday, May 24, 2013

In the Music Garden


Sometimes you just need to get away.
 
In those times, the best thing to do is pack up, run out the door, and be free…
 
To release yourself from obligation, responsibility, stress, and the hustle and bustle of everyday life, even at the busiest times. (Especially during those times.)
 
When you let yourself slow down, and free your mind of all those thoughts running rampant, you’ll begin to dream of great things.
 
“Why dream? Life is a difficult assignment. We are fragile creatures, expected to function at high rates of speed, and asked to accomplish great and small things each day. These daily activities take enormous amounts of energy. Most things are out of our control. We are surrounded by danger, frustration, grief, and insanity as well as love, hope, ecstasy, and wonder. Being fully human is an exercise in humility, suffering, grace, and great humor. Things and people all around us die, get broken, or are lost. There is no safety or guarantees. The way to accomplish the assignment of truly living is to engage fully, richly, and deeply in the living of your dreams. We are made to dream and to live those dreams.” | SARK
 
We escaped the city, without ever having to leave it, and immersed ourselves in the Music Garden. An entirely different world where our imaginations flourished... and the pirate ships were anchored on the high seas next to a jungle full of magical budding flowers, and greenery so lush, you could get lost in it. And so we did…
 
 
Have yourself a magical weekend. Let your imagination soar xx


Thursday, April 04, 2013

The Light


“Everyone has this giant, luminous being that is their true self…
Everyone is a sleeping giant, so to speak,
waiting to hear the call,
waiting to surrender to it,
waiting to act on it.
We’ve gotten caught up in thinking we are what we look like,
the physical, the exterior.
We think we’re the lamp shade.
We’ve forgotten that we are the light—
the electricity and the luminosity that lights up
every man, woman, and child.
The light is who we truly are.”
 
- MICHAEL BERNARD BECKWITH

Image via Amamak Photography

Tuesday, February 26, 2013

It's Your Life - If You Make It So


Every second is of infinite value. Lately I've been feeling like this is more true than ever before. For some reason, the seconds, minutes, and hours of the day are beginning to impact me in a way like they never have. The thoughts I choose today continue to cling to me, and the choices I make in this moment will shape the days to come.

Maybe I'm just being dramatic but for some reason, I can't help but think that maybe our biggest fault is that we believe we have time. We have our whole lives to _____________. (As we consciously decide to put our passions on the back burner, time and time again.)

But what if we took the leap right now? What if we starting living the way we want to live, right now? Letting our feelings inform us and expand our experiences while simultaneously pushing aside negative feelings that leave us imprisoned.

“It’s your life — but only if you make it so. The standards by which you live must be your own standards, your own values, your own convictions in regard to what is right and wrong, what is true and false, what is important and what is trivial. When you adopt the standards and the values of someone else or a community or a pressure group, you surrender your own integrity. You become, to the extent of your surrender, less of a human being.”
- Eleanor Roosevelt
 
Have you ever wanted to take a chance and try something new? When you've thought about putting those plans into action, have you ever thought...
 
But what if I fail?
 
Someone else is doing it better than me...
 
I couldn't possibly... I'm not qualified enough/educated enough/have enough experience
 
Will I be judged? What will people think of me?
 
Know that you are enough. You can do this. It's time to kick comparisons to the curb. It's time to start living by your own standards. It's time to start believing.  Don't let the fear and doubt control you, they are not the deciding factor in your future successes. Pay close attention to your desires and let them guide you.
 
Because this life is yours. If you make it so.
 
Your turn! What are your passions? What would you like to invite more of into your life? I'd love to hear all about it in the comments.

Image via Julian Bialowas

Tuesday, February 19, 2013

Share Your Favourite Love Poem


Love. Heart pumping, butterfly inducing, soul warming love.

The Beatles got it right when they said all you need is love. It's inspired some of the greatest stories, songs, and movies in the history of time. It's the burning bright sun in the sky. It's that one twinkling star against a black backdrop. It's infectious.

The closer we come to our wedding day, the more emersed I am into the world of love, becoming completely inspired by it. The only hard part is, there's so much of it out there. On my to-do list right now? Searching for readings for the ceremony. I've discovered pieces that are so beautiful but just, not quite there, you know?

So today I'd thought we'd do something a little fun and share some of our favourites! A poem, story, passage, quote... dig deep into that gorgeous brain library of yours and share what gets your heart fluttering.

Here's mine...

"Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you.

When something wonderful happens, you can't wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful.

There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever.

Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colours seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face.

In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do.

Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible.

You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life." Bob Marley

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Isn't it so beautiful and honest? It really captures what loving somebody is all about. It's the little things, the things that mean the world to you. And the truth is, loving somebody completely is the most terrifying and yet exhilarating thing we could ever do. All we have to do is take the risk and have faith in our decisions. In our love.

Gives me goosebumps!

Your turn! I can't wait to read some of your favourites.

Sunday, February 17, 2013

Only Four Secrets

 
The first day of school our professor introduced himself and challenged us to get to know someone we didn't already know. I stood up to look around when a gentle hand touched my shoulder. I turned round to find a wrinkled, little old lady beaming up at me with a smile that lit up her entire being.

She said, "Hi handsome. My name is Rose. I'm eighty-seven years old. Can I give you a hug?"

I laughed and enthusiastically responded, "Of course you may!" and she gave me a giant squeeze. "Why are you in college at such a young, innocent age?" I asked.

She jokingly replied, "I'm here to meet a rich husband, get married, and have a couple of kids..."

"No seriously," I asked. I was curious what may have motivated her to be taking on this challenge at her age.

"I always dreamed of having a college education and now I'm getting one!" she told me. After class we walked to the student union building and shared a chocolate milkshake.

We became instant friends. Every day for the next three months we would leave class together and talk nonstop. I was always mesmerized listening to this "time machine" as she shared her wisdom and experience with me.

Over the course of the year, Rose became a campus icon and she easily made friends wherever she went. She loved to dress up and she reveled in the attention bestowed upon her from the other students. She was living it up.

At the end of the semester we invited Rose to speak at our football banquet. I'll never forget what she taught us. She was introduced and stepped up to the podium. As she began to deliver her prepared speech, she dropped her three by five cards on the floor. Frustrated and a little embarrassed she leaned into the microphone and simply said, "I'm sorry I'm so jittery. I gave up beer for Lent and this whiskey is killing me! I'll never get my speech back in order so let me just tell you what I know."

As we laughed she cleared her throat and began, "We do not stop playing because we are old; we grow old because we stop playing.

There are only four secrets to staying young, being happy, and achieving success. You have to laugh and find humor every day. You've got to have a dream. When you lose your dreams, you die.

We have so many people walking around who are dead and don't even know it! There is a huge difference between growing older and growing up.

If you are nineteen years old and lie in bed for one full year and don't do one productive thing, you will turn twenty years old. If I am eighty-seven years old and stay in bed for a year and never do anything I will turn eighty-eight.

Anybody can grow older. That doesn't take any talent or ability. The idea is to grow up by always finding opportunity in change. Have no regrets. The elderly usually don't have regrets for what we did, but rather for things we did not do. The only people who fear death are those with regrets."

She concluded her speech by courageously singing "The Rose."
She challenged each of us to study the lyrics and live them out in our daily lives.
At the year's end Rose finished the college degree she had begun all those years ago.
One week after graduation Rose died peacefully in her sleep.

***
A friend of mine originally shared this on Facebook... I saw it and just couldn't resist sharing it with you! It's never too late to be all that you can possibly be.

Image: Via

Thursday, February 14, 2013

A Day for Love



Happy Valentine's day, lovers! Whether you're single, taken, or somewhere inbetween, today is the perfect day to spread a little love. I urge you to hop off the internet and make somebody feel special. (Give 'em the warm and fuzzies!) Go out of your way to compliment someone, give a stranger some flowers, call your parents, tell your best friend how much they mean to you, anything you'd like! One act of kindness can truly make someone's day.

"Simply seek happiness and you are not likely to find it. Seek to create and love without regard to your happiness and you are likely to be happy much of the time."
- American psychiatrist Dr M Scott Peck

Create. Love. Be happy.

It's that simple, gorgeous. xx

Thursday, January 31, 2013

found: No Limits


Bruce had me up to three miles a day, really a good pace. We’d run the three miles in twenty-one or twenty-two minutes. Just under eight minutes a mile. So this morning has said to me “We’re going to go five.” I said, “Bruce, I can’t go five. I’m a helluva lot older than you are, and I can’t do five.” He said, “When we get to three we’ll shift gears and it’s okay two more and you’ll do it.” I said, “Okay, hell, I’ll go for it.” So we get to three, we go into the fourth mile and I’m okay for three or four minutes, and then I really begin to give out.” I’m tired, my heart’s pounding, I can’t go any more and so I say to him, “Bruce if I run any more,” – and we’re still running – “if I run any more I’m liable to have a heart attack and die.” He said, “Then die.”
 
It made me so mad that I went the full five miles. Afterward I went to the shower and then I wanted to talk to him about it. I said, you know, “Why did you say that?” He said, “Because you might as well be dead. Seriously, if you always put limits on what you can do, physical or anything else, it’ll spread over into the rest of your life. It’ll spread into your work, into your morality, into your entire being. There are no limits. There are plateaus, but you might not stay there, you might go beyond them. If it kills you, it kills you. A person must constantly exceed their level.”
 
***
Read this and my heart practically exploded. So, naturally I thought it’d be the perfect thing to share with you. :)
 
Dream on. Dream big. Push past your limits and magic will happen. Make this day and every other day worth remembering.

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Friday, January 18, 2013

Why Wait?

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We all have goals, dreams, and aspirations. We all have an idea in our minds of what we want to do, who we want to be. There are many “greats” in the world – Albert Einstein, Thomas Jefferson, Helen Keller, Ernest Hemingway, Leo Tolstoy, to name a few – and it’s easy to forget that everyone had their own obstacles to get where they did. We all have to live our own stories… fight our own battles, appreciate the blessings, and savor the moments. First, you just have to decide how the next chapter will play out.
 
I often find inspiration in the writings of others. The power of the written word is pretty undeniable, don’t you think? It’s that small glimpse into what that person is thinking, that little peek into their souls. What makes them tick, what’s deep in their heart. I’ve written in the past about Letters of Note, a site full of letters sent throughout the world – some from people you may even recognize. Here’s one I thought you’d like…

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In 1969, publisher John Martin offered to pay Charles Bukowski $100 each and every month for the rest of his life, on one condition: that he quit his job at the post office and become a writer. 49-year-old Bukowski did just that, and in 1971 his first novel, Post Office, was published by Martin's Black Sparrow Press.
 
15 years later, Bukowski wrote the following letter to Martin and spoke of his joy at having escaped full time employment.
 
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8-12-86
 
Hello John:
 
Thanks for the good letter. I don't think it hurts, sometimes, to remember where you came from. You know the places where I came from. Even the people who try to write about that or make films about it, they don't get it right. They call it "9 to 5." It's never 9 to 5, there's no free lunch break at those places, in fact, at many of them in order to keep your job you don't take lunch. Then there's OVERTIME and the books never seem to get the overtime right and if you complain about that, there's another sucker to take your place.
 
You know my old saying, "Slavery was never abolished, it was only extended to include all the colors."
 
And what hurts is the steadily diminishing humanity of those fighting to hold jobs they don't want but fear the alternative worse. People simply empty out. They are bodies with fearful and obedient minds. The color leaves the eye. The voice becomes ugly. And the body. The hair. The fingernails. The shoes. Everything does.
 
As a young man I could not believe that people could give their lives over to those conditions. As an old man, I still can't believe it. What do they do it for? Sex? TV? An automobile on monthly payments? Or children? Children who are just going to do the same things that they did?
 
Early on, when I was quite young and going from job to job I was foolish enough to sometimes speak to my fellow workers: "Hey, the boss can come in here at any moment and lay all of us off, just like that, don't you realize that?"
 
They would just look at me. I was posing something that they didn't want to enter their minds.
 
Now in industry, there are vast layoffs (steel mills dead, technical changes in other factors of the work place). They are layed off by the hundreds of thousands and their faces are stunned:
 
"I put in 35 years..."
"It ain't right..."
"I don't know what to do..."
 
They never pay the slaves enough so they can get free, just enough so they can stay alive and come back to work. I could see all this. Why couldn't they? I figured the park bench was just as good or being a barfly was just as good. Why not get there first before they put me there? Why wait?
 
I just wrote in disgust against it all, it was a relief to get the shit out of my system. And now that I'm here, a so-called professional writer, after giving the first 50 years away, I've found out that there are other disgusts beyond the system.
 
I remember once, working as a packer in this lighting fixture company, one of the packers suddenly said: "I'll never be free!"
 
One of the bosses was walking by (his name was Morrie) and he let out this delicious cackle of a laugh, enjoying the fact that this fellow was trapped for life.
 
So, the luck I finally had in getting out of those places, no matter how long it took, has given me a kind of joy, the jolly joy of the miracle. I now write from an old mind and an old body, long beyond the time when most men would ever think of continuing such a thing, but since I started so late I owe it to myself to continue, and when the words begin to falter and I must be helped up stairways and I can no longer tell a bluebird from a paperclip, I still feel that something in me is going to remember (no matter how far I'm gone) how I've come through the murder and the mess and the moil, to at least a generous way to die.
 
To not to have entirely wasted one's life seems to be a worthy accomplishment, if only for myself.
 
yr boy,
Hank
 
Think about it: When you look back at your life, what’s one (or two, or three) things you want to accomplish? Just something to think about while you enjoy the weekend! Make it incredible. xx
 
Sources: Letter via Letters of Note, Images 1 & 2

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